Trust and Love

How can we trust the people we love?

It is very ironic that the more we love the person, the more we become unprotected of our feelings. It makes us so vulnerable. A lot of times, we become more doubtful as a result of the feeling of vulnerability. This is where we start to question the love. We start to feel that somehow there is something wrong with the relationship. TRUST! This is now being put into the test.

Should our love be enough to trust the love? When we say we need to trust the love, does it mean, we have to trust our partner’s love? What if the person is not that trustworthy? What if he is not faithful?

Many times we are confronted with the issue of trust in the relationship. Many times, a failed relationship roots from the absence of trust. It is true that the success of relationship is based not only on the love, respect and care, but most of the time though; it has to do with the confidence of one that we trust our partner and that we have faith in him. In the first place, the reason why we said “YES” to our boyfriend is because we know that we can entrust our heart to him. Entrusting our heart means entrusting our love.

But is love enough to really make us feel secure that our partner will stay faithful to us? Most of the time, the deeper our love is, the more we become blind of the faithfulness of our partner. The more that we feel our love become deep, the more that we become so entrusting.

When we are in-love, we are in the positive and favorable side of the world. This is a fact: When we are deeply in-love we may come across all the challenges in our relationship, but as long as we know, that our partner is with us, we overcome it, come hell or high. As time passes by, we begin to entrust our life. When we make the mistake of entrusting our life to the wrong person, this is where we begin to fail in life.

I don’t want to disillusion you. I just want to make us all aware, that somehow, in this present world, we need to be extra careful, especially with the matters of the heart.

Trust, it entails love. Love it entails trust. Together, it makes a very powerful binding force to make our commitment last forever.

Therefore, trust the right person. Entrust your love to the person, who knows how to entrust his life to you. That way, we’ll know, we will always be in the safe ground and our love will never be thrown and wasted.